Our great books for children have been replaced by silly books or books that give children the wrong ideas about what it means to be a civilized human being.
For example, there is a children’s book titled My Dad is a B***head that sells pretty well on Amazon.
While it's important that you read often to your child when he's young, it’s also important to know what kind of books to choose for your children.
3 Criteria for Choosing a Good Book
Below are three criteria for discriminating between a good children’s book and one that should be relegated to the junk pile.
Elevate His Mind
Literature should elevate a child's mind, not debase it. He should encounter heroes and heroines that are worthy of emulation.
The characters should be kind-hearted, ethical, and well-mannered. Think of Pollyanna, Anne of Green Gables, and Little Lord Fauntleroy.
Teach Language Skills
Literature should teach children excellent language skills and help to develop your child’s vocabulary.
As he grows older and comes across words such as philanthropist, humiliation, valiant, nautical, or grave, he'll already be familiar with them.
Test your ten-year-old now. Is your child familiar with these words? If not, you may want to reevaluate the kind of literature you're exposing him to.
Respect
The attitude the characters have towards parents, adults, and authority should be one of reverence, respect, and obedience.
Any child's book that features ill-mannered, vulgar children as the hero or heroine should not be allowed.
THE UNDERLYING CONCERN
The bigger problem with the B***head story is that it was written by a father, to his son.
“To raise respectful children, you must be a good leader.”
This is the plight many parents find themselves in today; they fail to be effective leaders and role models to their children.
We need to understand what makes a decent person, what makes a happy person, what makes a successful person, and then we need to do our best to provide a suitable environment for our child to become this person.
Supplying children with quality literature is one place to start.
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